Thursday, May 11th, 2017

Lucy’s reinvention story: Hustling her way into a new career

“Stop overthinking and take the leap.”

You’re never too young for a career change! I’m excited to share Lucy O’Connor’s personal story of reinvention. She’s preparing to morph her business Monday Hustle into something even more beautiful by becoming a life coach. As you’ll read we first connected many years ago when Lucy was a teenager. I was thrilled to hear from her again and awed by all that she had achieved.

I was also excited to learn she wanting me to help her become a Worklife Solutions Certified Life Coach, but that’s not the real story. The real story is her vision for her coaching business, Monday Hustle and her deep desire to help others increase their resilience, mental wellness and give birth to their entrepreneurial dreams.

Check out Monday here Hustle www.mondayhustle.com. Pretty impressive, right? I will let Lucy tell her story, but one of the things I was surprised to hear was that Lucy doubted she might have anything to offer! But in saying that, I also know self-doubt is common prior to embarking on transformational change. That’s where partnering with a mentor helps.

Plus, every great story is drawn from intentions and obstacles. To be the hero’s and heroines of our own stories is what makes life rewarding.

Many of the questions I asked Lucy are drawn from screenwriting legend Christopher Vogler and his guide to story structure (inspired by the work of Joseph Campbell’s The Hero’s (and heroine’s) Journey. I’ve put some of the stages in brackets.

Why did you decide to train to be a life coach? Describe your everyday existence work wise (The ordinary world)

My everyday work existence was typically one completely starved of inspiration and fulfillment! But it wasn’t for lack of trying. After studying psychology at Uni, I received an internship at an advertising agency, which I took because society told me I would be stupid not to. At 21, I had literally no interest in the advertising world, but taking on that role shaped the employment positions I would receive for the next 5 years.

I worked in PR, sales, media, promotions, radio, yet not one of those roles felt any closer to whatever it was I was destined for.

At 26, I’d had enough. After receiving a promotion in my then advertising sales role, I realized not only that I didn’t want to step up the ladder but I had to make a clean break for the last time!

I had nothing to go to and had little else but my savings, my contacts and lots of fresh optimism – but something told me it was now or never – so, I trusted my gut, and took the leap.

I decided to start a blog as a way to keep accountable for my new chosen path, and named it ‘Monday Hustle’. I used the word ‘Monday’ to try and give people a fresh excitement about that day, and ‘Hustle’ to give the feeling of momentum, growth, and resilience.

Little did I know that Monday Hustle would manifest into my calling!

I wrote a blog post each Monday which covered what I had done, learned and experienced that week, and after a year and a half of authentically sharing my story, I realized that maybe I had some extra value to provide my ever-growing audience.

I went back and assessed what aspects of myself had grown the most, and found that the main difference between 2015 Lucy and 2017 Lucy was her ability to feel resilient in the face of change, transition and when looking after her mental wellbeing. I thought it would be an incredible thing if I could help others to develop their own skill set in these areas, and thought the best way to do this was to train to be a coach! And here I am at another transitional phase of my life – which I am super excited about.

What factors influenced your decision to train with Worklife Solutions/Cassandra? (call to adventure)

I had already worked with Cassandra when I was 17, and she was fab. She helped me settle on a degree which set me in great stead for life because it was one that kept my interest and has always been relevant no matter what I do (psychology).

It felt only natural to go back and train with Worklife Solutions because I had been through the process and benefited greatly!

You initially considered training several years ago? Why did you delay? (Refusal of the call)

I refused to answer the call because of my age and my lack of confidence in myself and the wisdom I had to offer. However, after writing Monday Hustle and assessing the response, I think there is a great need for young influencers, coaches, and thought leaders to work with other young people who may be challenged with similar things. It is through empathy and understanding that we truly connect – and the more we can do that, the better the world will be.

Who or what encouraged you to train? (Meeting the mentor)

As I was going through a semi-life-crisis (see below), I started chatting with a few mentor-type people I had met through my Monday Hustle journey. At that point, I was nearly ready to throw in the towel, give it all up and move to a remote village in Bali I was so starved of inspiration; however, luckily a few people pulled me back to earth! They said, Lucy, you have this captive audience who want you to succeed, why on earth would you give all of that up?? You have skills to offer, wisdom to share and life experience that could really assist young people who are going through similar journeys – so what can you do to help?

I thought that over for a while, and then something happened that would really cement my decision – which naturally leads to the answer to the question below!

What was the pivotal moment, turning point or catalyst to saying ‘yes” now and committing to action i.e. enrolling, paying your fees and locking in a start date (crossing the threshold)

As I was going through that life crisis last December and feeling resentful towards everything I had created, I snapped my Achilles tendon. This, of course, forced me to step back and assess where I was at in life. I think that snapping my Achilles was the universe’s way of saying ok, don’t just slow down, STOP, review and gain some clarity.

My mother suggested I look at online courses as a way to keep interested and pass the time while I healed, and suddenly it all came together!! I had worked with Cassandra when I was 17, and she popped back into my head when I was thinking about what I might like to study. As they say, the stars aligned, and I just had to act on that gut feeling!

What challenges did you face? (Tests, allies and enemies)

I experienced the challenge of whether or not I had the cash, the resources, doubt as to whether or not it was really the right thing to do. I thought about all the people I knew in the life coaching space and wondered whether there was room for me. I questioned whether it all made sense, both for me and for my audience. And then I stopped overthinking and took the leap.

The final destination lies ahead—what steps are you taking to prepare for successful completion? (Approaching the innermost cave)

Time management is key for me right now!! I am effectively in the process of setting up two businesses at once because of my decision to steer Monday Hustle in the direction of life coaching, so it really is going to be a case of staying disciplined, focussed and keeping the motivation levels high!

What fears, if any, do you feel you must overcome? (The crisis/supreme ordeal)

I think I have to get over the fear that I will have nothing to offer, and that my skill set isn’t valuable. Believe it or not, before Monday Hustle I was intensely private and kept everything as close to my chest as possible (to the point where I wouldn’t even tell my mum about auditions I had unless I got the role!) My idea of success was to just make it, and have no one see the journey you took to get there. It’s bizarre to me that now literally every single win and every single fail is recorded for anyone to see – so I guess when it comes to valuing myself, I still have a bit of scar tissue from that past life!

Crossing the threshold—describe what you and your life will look like when you return with your treasure:) (Seizing the reward, The Road Back.)

My life will be one which has more direction, excitement, fulfillment and momentum. With a honed focus comes clarity, and I have no doubt that once I get on this path, opportunities will present themselves more and more frequently. If I can help one person to feel more confident in the fact that they are capable of overcoming their battles, then I will feel very stoked indeed.

What last tests do you feel you may face? How will you know you are reborn into a new and beautiful form ( The Climax/resurrection)

The last tests I will face are resistance and doubt, which will stem from me internally, and try to throw me off course!!

I will know I’m a beautiful form when getting up in the morning is so exciting that I never hit snooze, where I am when I am meeting people from all walks of life and we are working together to create some serious magic.

Finally, the treasure is yours. Begin with the end in mind – what does this look like, feel like, what can you hear etc – engage all of the senses to make your vision/treasure real. (Return with the elixir)

This treasure smells like freshly cut grass. It sounds like a bird harmonizing with Lauren Hill. It feels like the kind of joy that a child experiences when they are running under the sprinkler in summer. 

What a wonderful future Lucy is manifesting! Feeling the beauty of who you are and what you do, harmonising with Lauren Hill and feeling the joy of a child running under a sprinkler is definitely a sign of alignment with spirit energy, passion and purpose.

Did you love this story. Check out Lynnie’s reinvention story here—from midwife to life coach >>

If you’d like to learn more about how you can follow your passion and purpose and create a rewarding career, click here http://www.worklifesolutions.nz/coach-training

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